Dear Friend,

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I don't remember my 20s very well.  I was a wife and a mom at 19 and, for me, my 20s were about taking care of everyone else... and I did that.  By the time I hit 29, I was in a place of re-evaluating my life.  Add to that a messy divorce and custody battle and, in my 30s, I was trying to figure out who I was and what I wanted and what all of that meant for the decade I'd created being this 'image' that I simply couldn't live up to or into.

 

I remember what it was like to question myself:

Is this really the life I want?

Whose life am I living?

Where did I go wrong?

Why do things not feel right to me?

Why am I still holding myself back and playing small?

What's got to happen for me to finally get to the part where I'm living MY TRUE life?

 

Those were the kinds of questions I asked in my 30s and, truth be told, I got some answers  but not much clarity. 

 

When I hit 40, I had a series of epiphanies.  One day, I looked down at my chest and, for the first time, I saw wrinkles in between my breasts... Now, to some, that may seem like no big deal at all and I expected wrinkles on my face but in between my boobs?  Those in-between wrinkles showed me one thing I hadn't been willing to face: LIFE IS SHORT AND TIME WILL NOT WAIT FOR ME TO GET MY SHIT TOGETHER!

 

Then I started to meet women much older than me and talk to them about their dreams, their lives and their regrets and, before I knew it, I was discovering something about all of us that I hadn't yet come to grips with:

 

We were all 'waiting' for our time to shine and NO ONE was ever going to give us permission to have that.

 

So I made a promise to myself: NO MORE WAITING.  If I want it, I've got to go out and get it.  And if I'm going to both get it and keep it, I have to become the HIGHEST version of myself NOW... and that's where the Rebuild Yourself Program was born.

 

And I began the work of living Brianna Wiest's quote:

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Just so you know, your best possible self is 

not always your most physically perfect self.

It is your strongest self, your most resilient 

self, your kindest self, your most determined

self, your most clear-minded and focused

self.  It is the self that can advocate for your

needs and enforce the boundaries you set

with others.  It is the self that honors your 

future instead of caving to the past.  It is the

self that is not afraid of what's ahead because

they are investing in what's here right now.

It is the self that is most true to who you

fundamentally are inside, not the self that 

you think would appear most attractive to

others.  Your best possible self is the self that

exists for you, not for someone else's eyes.

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I stopped second-guessing what I wanted and stopped settling for what I needed.  I stopped living for other people's approval and started doing the work of falling in love with myself, flaws and all.  I started to embrace my darkness so I could finally live in my light... and, from all of this, the Rebuild Yourself 12 Week Program was born.

 

And I'd like to invite you on the journey with me...  

 

In this program, we're going to do deep work, including: 

• Rediscovering your deepest desires, dreams and life goals and putting them back on the priority list!

• Getting crystal clarity on what you want, don't want, and how to set up the boundaries, standards, and life environment conducive to attracting your Highest Good

• Developing an unstoppable mindset that is resilient to life storms, toxic people, and the inevitable pitfalls of life (loss, betrayal, hurt, disappointment, anger, shame, and guilt) 

• Living in a queen's mindset and reclaiming the throne of your life, unapologetically and without ever looking back

• Learning how to transform self-doubt, fear, and procrastination into allies for achieving your biggest dreams

• Releasing toxic relationships and setting/protecting clear, healthy boundaries with ease 

• Creating your personalized Rebuild Yourself blueprint that will include the systems and processes you'll need to CHOOSE YOURSELF every single day for the rest of your life, even as you weather life storms  

• and much, much more...