Kassandra Vaughn
Author | Coach | Podcaster
You didn't lose yourself. You outgrew the version of you that got you here.
Midlife Identity Coaching for women over 40 who are ready to come home to themselves.
Somewhere between the career, the kids, the marriage, the caretaking, and the version of "successful" you were supposed to want — the woman you actually are got quiet.
She didn't disappear. She's been waiting.
I'm Kassandra Vaughn — author, coach, and guide for women in the second half of life who are done performing a self that no longer fits. My work is helping you locate her again, listen to her, and build the next chapter on her terms.
The Midlife Moment
If you're here, something has shifted.
Maybe the kids left and the silence got loud. Maybe the marriage ended, or you're still in it and quieter than you've ever been. Maybe you hit the career goal and felt nothing. Maybe a parent got sick, or you did, and suddenly time stopped feeling theoretical.
Whatever brought you to this page — you're not in crisis. You're in transition. And midlife transition is one of the most powerful, least talked-about reinventions a woman ever gets to make.
You're not behind. You're not too late. You're right on time.
What Midlife Identity Coaching actually looks like
This isn't mindset work that lives on a vision board. It's identity work — the kind that goes underneath the surface story and asks the question most women over 40 have been too busy to ask:
Who am I now, and what does she actually want?
Together, we'll:
Locate. Name what's really happening underneath the restlessness, the resentment, or the quiet ache that something needs to change.
Illuminate. Surface the old identity, the inherited belief, or the role you outgrew years ago but never put down.
Move. Translate the clarity into a Second Life you actually want to live in — with concrete steps, not vague intentions.
Who I Work With
This is for you if...
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You're a woman over 40 sensing you're at a threshold — and tired of pretending you're not.
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You've done the books, the journals, the podcasts. You don't need more input. You need someone to help you hear yourself.
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You're not interested in "getting your old self back." You want to meet the woman who's been waiting on the other side of this chapter.
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You're ready to stop optimizing the life you have and start designing the one you actually want.
Two ways in.
The Artemis Package — Three months of focused private coaching for the woman ready to do real work on the chapter of her life that's asking to be rewritten. 8 sessions. $4,800.
The Athena Package — A full year of private coaching for the woman ready to reinvent her Second Life from the ground up.
36 sessions. $15,000.
A note before you go.
The women I work with aren't broken. They're not lost. They're standing at the most generative threshold of their adult lives — and they just need someone who can see that, hold space for it, and walk them through.
If that's you, you're in the right place.
Contact Me
Have a question? Comment? Inquiry? Let's engage.
Use the form below or send an email to: info@kassandravaughn.com